WHAT IT *REALLY* TAKES TO BE SUCCESSFUL

WHAT IT *REALLY* TAKES TO BE SUCCESSFUL

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WHAT IT *REALLY* TAKES TO BE SUCCESSFUL

I used to approach money in a disempowered Cinderella kind of way.

Deep down, I just didn’t believe I deserved the damn money!

Not even the money I required to sustain my basic needs.

THIS SOUNDS SO CRAZY TO ME NOW!!!

But at the same time, if you told me you were experiencing this today, I’d nod my head passionately: “Yes, yup! Totally. That was me!!”

I totally and 100% completely get it.

Why?

Because I lived it *THEN* I got sick of living it.

So I starting showing up for myself, voraciously, day after day, year after year (yes it did take me years) to deal with this shiz.

I’m not gonna lie, there were a few “Prince Charmings” along the way who lifted me up in love or reflected back to me how much I devalued myself through the way they treated me...

...but mostly this was about inner work. Me facing me. Digging into that deep well of shame inside me, that I seriously thought would NEVER END and never stop haunting me, and doing the inner work to get from where I was then, to where I am now.

****We’re talking RELENTLESS self honesty here. Every day: asking myself what’s coming up for me now. Facing scary as shit emotions. Figuring out where they came from why they’re living inside me then letting them go.

****We’re talking intense RE-TRAINING of the old self-delineating patterns that used to kick my ass and keep me broke and unable to stand up for myself

****Aaaaand we’re talking getting comfortable (which was not comfortable AT ALL at first) with loving myself so fiercely and without any fucking judgment, which in turn allowed me to love others in the exact same way ❤️

This is what it takes.

No, it doesn’t come naturally to any of us.

It’s work!

The truest, deepest work of showing up to honour ourselves.

EXACTLY WHERE WE ARE in our healing process right now.

Saying YES over and over and over and over again to learning how to love ourselves more.

Be here for ourselves more.

Give ourselves what we’ve always needed, but never received from others ... because ... we were always meant to learn to give it to ourselves!!!!

This 💜 includes supporting ourselves financially.

This 💜 includes facing down the demons trapped in our energy fields, doing what it takes to cast them out and then keep them out, for good.

This 💜 includes solidifying our trust in ourselves like never before - to the point we feel 100% unstoppable. Not in an egotistical way, in our most authentic soul-empowered way. Totally aligned with integrity.

This feels so FREAKIN’ GOOD!!!!

For me, there’s nothing else like it.

It’s oxygen to the deepest part of my being.

It lights up every iota of my soul.

And makes me run in a running-kind-of-dancing like way to do those things I’ve always been destined to do in the world, but was always too afraid.

#notanymore

XOXO Success Coach Gina

PS...I know you feel this too, Sister!!! How can you not? This recipe for aligned living!! This amazing, fulfilling way of building wealth, FROM THE INSIDE OUT so we stop feeling yucky with money, and give it a chance to do what it’s actually always been meant to do in our lives, before all this shitty programming and conditioning came in to screw things up for us and our success! Money is here to nourish us, to help us serve our communities and families in greater ways, to heal our inner selves in the most phenomenal ways, and teach others how to do the same - if only by living as the example that is RADIANT SHINING THRIVING ABUNDANT YOU!! To learn more about how we do this together, in my Bosses in Pajamas community, visit my website at HTTP://WWW.BOSSESINPAJAMAS.COM 💜

Gina Silvestri