BODY + MONEY SUCCESS HAPPEN LIKE THIS ....

BODY + MONEY SUCCESS HAPPEN LIKE THIS ....

BODY + MONEY SUCCESS HAPPEN LIKE THIS ....

PHOTOS OF MY 150 POUND WEIGHT LOSS BACK IN 2008 KEEP COMING UP ON MY FB ‘MEMORIES’ AND IT’S DRIVING ME NUTS ….


Not because I have gained a bit of weight back and forth since then and I’m being hard on myself because I think I should be thinner or look different


(NO COUGHS COUGHS GROSS *disgusting* - I got over that brand of self-hatred a loooong time ago)


What’s driving me nuts is that I haven’t officially and publicly caught people up to speed on what the hell happened with my body weight yet.


Noooo (shhhh old yucky patterns + Judgey McJudgey people!!!) it’s not that I was hiding or haven’t realized what was really going on in the past eleven years since my mega body transformation occurred


-in fact there are posts everywhere on all my social medias that tell bits of what I need to say now -


it’s just that I never sat down to tell the full story, all at once, AND, I’m ready to share more, BIGGER.


Like this …. (and yessss I’m using all caps for a second here because this needs to be screamed from rooftops)


THE ONLY THING STOPPING YOU FROM THE BODY YOU WANT IS THE B.S. STORIES YOU’RE TELLING YOURSELF IN YOUR MIND.


Listen up because this is gold!!!! Quite literally it does turn into gold + I’m gonna get to teaching you about how this works with money in a second here, because it’s alllllllllllll #samesame


Your mind generates thoughts that determine your mood. Your mood, then determines what kind of action you will take (or not take). That action is literally what creates the life you live in your physical world today, and every day moving forward.


SOOOO……if your thoughts tell you you’re too tired, too sore, too moody, too broke, or too busy to eat right and exercise and get your hormones tested = do everything it takes to guarantee you will lose the weight like you really want to, then you will not do what it takes to lose weight. You will feel depleted, exhausted, lacking in resources, weak and unmotivated to take the action that brings physical weight loss results into your world. PROOF: Your bathroom scale and clothes in your closet prove that you did not get results.


AAANNNNDDDD……if your thoughts tell you that being rich isn’t for you, that your business can only be *so* successful, that people in your life will abandon you if you make too much more money than they do, then you will feel shut down, stuck, less than, unworthy + incapable of doing what it takes to make your business successful. PROOF: your business bank account proves you did not get those results.


This isn’t rocket science, my Love!


It’s basic cause and effect.


The thing most people miss is the very B.S. that goes on behind the scenes that I’m talking about here.


B.S sneaks in behind the scenes (through your thoughts) and takes over your world if you’re not aware and on top of it.


You must be aware and stay aware.


You must get on top and STAY on top of it, to achieve the results you want.


****THERE’S ONE MORE THING ….. trauma.


This one took me a bit longer to unravel.


When you’ve been through TONS of trauma, and it’s severe and prolonged, it’s easy to give yourself an out.


I say this with truck loads of LOVE, Dearest - because believe me it took me decades to get here and see this, and I love you enough right now to say it to you - when nobody else will:


Trauma is a story too.


It really is.


My weight gain and loss (plus the ups-downs since) are allll about this.


Trauma takes time to heal, of course it does, and nobody is forcefully rushing or re-traumatizing the situation here…. BUT


it does not need to stop you.


It does not GET TO stop you.


Moreover, it CANNOT stop you, when you see it this way:


the impact of trauma is real.

YES.

100%.


we need to be patient and loving and gentle with ourselves as we heal through it all and BE in the healing process.

YES.

absolutely.

100%.


Here’s the other part though … settling into the smallness of trauma being a BLOCKER or STOPPER to success is the biggest load of B.S. we could ever tell ourselves.


Stop it!!!

Just stop!!!

(speaking to you AND me here ... because even though I've mastered so much of this, it's an ongoing process for me, too!).


The B.S. has got to stop.

Plain and simple.


Because there IS NO limiting effect from any trauma in any of our pasts that is powerful enough to stop our success.


Not for our whole lives.

NO FREAKIN' WAY!!!!!


Not if we decide it won’t.

Not if we don’t let it.


IT CAN’T.


Who we are today and all the shit we’ve overcome has made us MUCH MORE POWERFUL AND STRONGER than we’ve ever been before.


It’s like breaking a bone, whatever limb you broke is always stronger after healing takes place.


Same same for you.


ALL ELSE IS 100% COMPLETE AND TOTAL BULLSHIT.


Now I know this can sound too good to be true to some of you.


That if you just change your thoughts you’ll change your whole life.


But guess what?


I gained then lost 150 pounds and have now settled at a steady weight for me for some time, which will just keep me going going going in the direction I need to go in now


I also generated $30k in a week in this online coaching business I adore and love, by getting rid of my B.S. around money (hello! = why I can't stop talking + teaching about it now, if I tried)


…. and btw VERY FEW people lose that much weight then keep it off for good, perfectly, without ANY ups-downs at all until they get to their goal weight and stay there for good!!!


#SAMESAME with lottery winners: VERY FEW keep their wealth and sustain it long term, after their first winfall.


It's a gradual back and forth process to the land of UNSTOPPABLE BADASS SUCCESS KICKASSERY.


What really happens is that the first experiences of money-making and weight loss are like trial bases. You’re learning how things really work, and it’s your trial ground to try allll the things that don’t work.


Until you’re done with it.

You’re sick and done with running in circles trying to force yourself to do the same crap that does not work, and has not ever worked for you.


So you start tuning into what really actually does work…..


IT BEGINS WITH CLEANING UP THESE B.S. STORIES IN YOUR MIND.


And that work starts *right now*


No matter what size the tags on your clothes say.


No matter what your bank account says.


You get to start the ONLY work that matters that will sustain you long-term, right now.

F traditional dieting strategy.

F traditional business strategy.


Most of them are just surface B.S that never empower you to maintain results long-term. Then you’ve wasted money and time and you leave feeling worse off than before.


That’s what the vegan raw food diet was for me!!! a quick-fix that worked for a time….. a door-opener, really…but if I didn’t step up and deal with the REAL STUFF going on underneath, I’d still be stuck in extreme dieting schemes and weight loss scams, living miserable as ever.


THE ONLY THING THAT ALLOWS PERMANENT TRANSFORMATION IS THIS B.S.-SLAYING WORK.


And you’re either ready to show up for it right now, or you’re not.


Either way is okay.


You just gotta know WHAT’S GOING ON, STRAIGHT UP, whatever you decide.


So there it is.


Love you!

XOXO Success Coach Gina


P.S. For those of you who ARE ready to join a tribe doing this work, together, BOSSES IN PAJAMAS is rockin’ and rollin’ !!! We meet twice a month virtually via telephone or internet video, your choice. I stay on the line with you until ALL of your questions about this work are answered *plus* you receive regular trainings the second you sign up (like now, ***right now*** you get them emailed upon registering). You also receive all trainings and call recordings in your email to keep forever…to listen to over and over and over again, to make sure your brain gets re-trained. Lord knows I did that, FOR YEARS. It made all the difference and it’s just what all that stubborn B.S. rolling around in our minds needs to be eliminated, for good. Click here to read more details about Bosses in Pajamas + sign up now: http://www.ginasilvestri.com/bip

Gina Silvestri