3 WAYS TO KEEP SUCCESS GOING WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS DRIVING YOU NUTS

3 WAYS TO KEEP SUCCESS GOING WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS DRIVING YOU NUTS

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3 WAYS TO KEEP SUCCESS GOING WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS DRIVING YOU NUTS

We all know what it feels like.

As sensitive women, we “take on” the stuff of people in our lives, don’t we?

Especially our significant other’s.

I mean, we are with them 24/7 - if not physically, definitely energetically.

We are always connected to them!!!

And, when they’re going through STRESS, the emotional weight we start carrying (which sometimes turns into physical weight) feels like it will kill us.

YES, our health - but also our online businesses!

How can we show up fresh and ALIVE and radiant, which all equals high magnetism, which attracts new people and keeps the people already in our business around - when we are EXHAUSTED from…

  • being constantly nagged at

  • listening to complaints

  • watching our partner behave in ways that are NOT in their full power, and against everything we believe in when it comes to living in the high frequency energy that is vital to our success!

Not to mention, when you’ve been through trauma, all of this is magnified.

You have LIMITED energy, because your body is working hard to heal from the past, and you’ve got to manage it all, and you’re probably undergoing therapy, or medications that make you tired.

Needless to say, it’s ALOT!!!

So today I’m offering you something to help you keep on going, when this marriage SHIZ hits the fan.

Ready?

It’s a “keep this at the front of your mind” tip today:

They aren’t doing it on purpose - and the faster you get back on kilter (when you’re about to be or already were thrown OFF kilter) - the faster you can help your love partner return back to their usual self …. that self you LOVE that nourishes you and supports everything you work for and desire in life.

That can’t happen when you’re both dysregulated. When you’re sitting there all bitter (hello! I’ve been there) because they’re not acting in their highest and most mature way, and you’re getting stuck as a result, because you’re now swept away by his or her dysregulation, and you’re angry AF about it.

Again, I’ve so been there.

Here’s the thing: we all have shitty days, months, years. And so do our partners. Trying to make them be where you are every single second of every single day is exactly what throws you off centre in the first place.

ONLY YOU CAN MAINTAIN OR THROW OFF YOUR HIGH VIBRATIONAL SUCCESS-ATTRACTING STATE.

Don’t ever forget this.

And don’t give your power away to your spouse by blaming him or her, because that just makes things worse. It drops you down the vibrational scale too, and leads you straight to broke town, which isn’t going to support either of you!

Actions you can take immediately, when you’re feeling overwhelmed, and/or feeling resentful or wanting them to STOP doing something (complaining, being stressed, being broke, nagging you etc etc):

1) communicate how much you love the person (who’s driving you nuts!) and cordially remove yourself from their presence, so you can do #2 on this list….

2) take care of yourself - go for a walk, hit a yoga class, eat some high vibrational food.

3) stay away as long as you need to do that - even if it’s for hours at a time. Just lovingly tell your spouse that there’s something urgent you need to do to care for you, so you can be there for him (which is the truth).

You will show up as a much better human, lover, romantic partner when you are FULL first, because feeding and nourishing others from the OVERFLOW of our metaphorical cups is how we role.

The rest is exhausting and impeding your progress.

Choose YOU first, so you can be the best support, inspiration and vibrational frequency holder for others.

Got it??

XOXOXO

Success Coach Gina

Gina Silvestri